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Standing on the Side of Love at Atlanta Pride

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Marching in Atlanta Pride.

On Sunday, Oct 13, around 100 member and friends of the Unitarian Universalist Congregation of Atlanta (UUCA) marched in the Atlanta Pride Parade to witness on behalf of LGBTQ rights.

UUCA Board President Joetta Prost said, “We looked great in our Standing on the Side of Love (and assorted other) t-shirts. Our choir members and musicians sang and played music all the way down Peachtree Street. [We had] wonderful responses that the crowds lining the street gave us when they saw our affirming messages. We had Rev. Makar and Rev. Thickstun leading the way. We had babies and grandmothers, and everything in between. I know that we sparked interest among parade watchers about the welcoming and accepting faith called Unitarian Universalism… and so we are keeping our commitment to change lives!”

Another participant, UUCA member Sven Lovegren, had this to say: “It was my first Pride Parade. I was amazed and heartened at the great number of people on the streets supportive of human/gay rights and equality for all. It was very heartwarming.”

Pride Sunday worship service at UUCA.

Earlier in the day, during a special Pride Sunday worship service, I shared a story about a conversation I had with a local reporter back in June when the Supreme Court overturned the Defense of Marriage Act and Proposition 8. The reporter wanted to know about Unitarian Universalism’s stance on marriage equality and LGBTQ equality.

Here’s what I said, in a nutshell.

First, I talked about how Unitarian Universalists stand on the side of love. Committed, loving relationships between mature adults who have chosen to be together is something infinitely sweet. To cherish and be cherished is the most amazing thing in this world, and every day, people suffer and even die from the unfulfilled longing for it, gay and straight. Whenever we see such cherishment in the world, we all ought to stand up and cheer, we all ought to stand back and behold the miracle that is worthy of the name God. We all ought to. It is holy. It is the Sacred, it is the Mystery, it is the Divine.

For my second point to the reporter: I talked about how Unitarian Universalists have been supporting gay rights for a long time now. Gay rights as human rights, human rights as gay rights. We were saying that long before Hilary Clinton. As just an example: in 1970, the Unitarian Universalist Association passed a general resolution urging people to immediately bring an end to all prejudice against gays and lesbians and bisexuals. In that same year it also called for lifting of the ban prohibiting gays and lesbians folk from serving in the U.S. military. Then, in 1996, “transgender” was added to the name of the UUA’s office overseeing all of this: the Office of Bisexual, Gay, Lesbian, and Transgender Concerns.

Marching in Atlanta Pride.

As for our work here at UUCA, I talked about our UU Lesbian and Gay Community from the early 1980s, how it was a powerful voice in Atlanta advocating for understanding and acceptance. I have a stack of newspapers from those days, and it’s amazing, all the things this congregation has done. Our current Interweave group was formed in 1994. We kicked off our initial Welcoming Congregation process in 1995, putting us on a path of becoming far more proactive around celebrating (vs. just tolerating) diversity.

I said all this, and then I told that reporter a third thing: how I sincerely believe that we Unitarian Universalists are far more faithful to the Hebrew and Christian scriptures than our so-called Bible-based opponents are—the Jerry Falwells and the Michele Bachmanns and the Sandy Rioses. Out of the seven passages in the entire Bible (Old Testament to New) that supposedly condemn “homosexuality,” none seem to actually talk about committed, loving relationships between people of the same sex. Scholars will tell you that the passages are probably talking about ritual forms of sex that occurred in the religions outside of Judaism and Christianity, and Jewish and Christian leaders wanted their followers to stay far away from it. Stay pure. But what we’re talking about today isn’t a religious ritual you can put on and take off like clothes: we’re talking about identity, what people are born as, how the manner of one’s loving flows out of that so very naturally. A completely different thing! We UUs, I told that reporter, are the ones who are doing the Bible justice.

The reporter sounded kind of stunned when I told her all this, as if she couldn’t believe that a church like ours actually existed. As if it amazed her that you could be a person of faith and affirm that LGBTQ people are as normal and as beautiful as a fall day.

All in all, it was a good day for the Unitarian Universalist Congregation of Atlanta, for Unitarian Universalism, and for human rights!

This post was written by Rev. Anthony Makar, Senior Minister at the UU Congregation of Atlanta, Georgia.

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The Power of Five

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FUCSJ youth write letters to their members of Congress.

Five kids with five pens and five pieces of paper sat at one table at one Unitarian Universalist church and wrote five letters to their congressional representatives. The young people at First Unitarian Church of San Jose (FUCSJ) expressed their fears about climate change and asked their elected leaders to use their power to do something about it.

That same Sunday, one 11-year old and one mom rode bikes to the mailbox and sent the letters.

Kids are worried. “I am one of the millions, even billions concerned about climate change,” writes one. “If you could make this a priority, I would sleep more comfortably in my bed,” writes another.

Kids have compelling arguments to show the urgency they see: “It seems like this country is concentrating on wars. If we do not concentrate on global warming there will not be ground to fight wars on,” writes an eighth grader.

They understand it. “The rim fire in Yosemite was one of the biggest in our state history,” writes one. “Plants and animals have been going extinct,” acknowledges a 13-year-old.

Children already know what has to change: “We need to tax carbon emissions.” And they know that the adults are the ones who need to take charge. “I’m writing because I want you to use your power as a representative to start making changes in our laws affecting the issue of global warming.”

FUCSJ youth speaks at Sunday service

FUCSJ youth reads her letter at the Sunday service.

Follow the Leaders

Three short weeks later, it was time to follow the leaders. These five letter-writing youth headlined at the FUCSJ service on Sunday, October 6, when Rev. Nancy Palmer Jones invited them to read their climate change letters to the congregation. There was a “Silent Spring” sensation as they shared their fears, knowledge about the issue, and demands for legislative leadership. These twelve- and thirteen-year-olds then led a letter-writing campaign for the adults.

Standing Room Only

By 12:20pm, just five minutes after the service ended, it was standing room only at the Climate Change Letter-Writing Campaign.

The youth split jobs at the table: assembling a quick photo poster; handing out envelopes, stamps, and legislator’s addresses; acting as ambassadors by walking around at coffee hour inviting adults and other kids to write letters. But it didn’t take much convincing. Parishioners readily asked for a pen, paper, and a seat at the table.

And adults know the issues too. “Global warming and climate change is already adversely affecting agriculture in California,” writes one.

FUCSJ adults write letters too.

FUCSJ adults write letters too.

They too are concerned, “Global warming worries me. Not so much for me personally (I’m 96 years old), but for my children and their children and everyone’s future kids,” another stated.

And they too want to see their leaders take action. “We need a carbon tax. We need you to be a leader. We need you to be brave.”

When the table folded 40 minutes later, 33 adults and ten total children from FUCSJ had written letters to their congressional representatives bringing the letter pile to 43.

It’s Monday, and the letters are mailed. Our next step is to encourage other children and adults to write letters.

Next Step

The junior high class at FUCSJ wants to spread the word to other congregations. What if these five kids inspire five more kids and five more adults to write letters to their representatives to ask them to do something about global warming? What if those fifteen people inspire another fifteen, and those thirty inspire another thirty, until the letters pile high on every representative’s desk?

Stack of letters to Congress.

Stack of letters to Congress from members of FUCSJ.

What if every Unitarian Universalist congregation invited their children and adults to participate in this letter-writing campaign?

Please join this project. For more information, contact Jennifer Castro, member, First Unitarian Church of San Jose, at djcasyun@a-link.net.

This post was written by Jennifer Castro, a member of the First UU Church of San Jose.

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Responding with Love

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Have you ever watched the news coverage surrounding a tragedy like the Newtown shooting or the Boston Marathon bombing and wondered how you could help? As members of the Unitarian Universalist Trauma Response Ministry, we are asked these kinds of questions all the time.

One thing you can do right now is join the Responding with Love Network, so you will be connected in the wake of a traumatic event. Click here to sign-up.

Last summer, thousands of you responded to the shooting at the Sikh temple in Oak Creek, Wisconsin, by writing messages of love and support to the Sikh community there. This action inspired Standing on the Side of Love to start a “Responding with Love Network” to recreate this outpouring of love whenever incidents of violence and hate occur.

Now, we are recommitting to this vision of a group of people dedicated to sending love in times of trauma.

Will you join the Responding with Love Network with us? Click here to sign-up.

For more information on productive ways to respond to trauma, visit Standing on the Side of Love’s new trauma response resources page.

May we continue to stand on the side of love together wherever and whenever people experience hate and oppression.

In faith,

Rev. Julie Taylor & Rev. Susan Karlson
On behalf of the Unitarian Universalist Trauma Response Ministry Board

The message above went out on Wednesday, October 16, 2013 to Standing on the Side of Love supporters. You can sign-up for these emails here.

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Worshipping on the Side of Love at the Colorado State Capitol

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Colorado’s 8th Annual Standing on the Side of Love Service. (Credit: Janet Meyer)

Seven hundred Unitarian Universalists (UUs) and local community members came together in Denver on the morning of Sunday, September 29, to stand (and sit and pray and sing and worship) on the side of love! For the eighth year in a row, Unitarian Universalists from the Front Range of Colorado and beyond gathered for a worship service on the steps of the Colorado State Capitol and witnessed for lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender, and queer (LGBTQ) justice. Led by ministers, directors of religious education, musicians, adult and children’s choirs, and lay people from nine different Unitarian Universalist congregations in the area, participants sang hymns together, were inspired by rousing words and music, and offered blessing to each other and out to the world.

This year’s service held a tri-fold focus: to celebrate the recent victories for relationship recognition–here in Colorado and around the country, to energize ourselves to stay committed to the ongoing struggle for marriage equality in Colorado, and to challenge ourselves to expand our love and our understanding of LGBTQ justice to include issues beyond marriage equality, such as LGBTQ youth and homelessness. As a part of this expanded focus, participants took offerings, both of paper hearts inscribed with messages of love and of money, for two organizations that serve LGBTQ homeless youth in Colorado.

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The crowd gathers at the 8th Annual Standing on the Side of Love Service at the Colorado State Capitol. (Credit: Kevin Lowry)

The now-annual Colorado Standing on the Side of Love worship service began in 2006, as a public witness of the First Unitarian Society of Denver against Amendment 43, a referendum that proposed adding a new section to the Colorado Constitution to define marriage as only a union between one man and one woman. Although the referendum passed several months later, the worship service had such an impact on its participants that they decided to continue holding it each year in the fall, as an ongoing witness for the power of love and, more specifically, as a call for marriage equality in Colorado.

As the years went on, First Unitarian invited other area UUs to join them at the worship service, along with public officials, community groups, and friends and family. The service grew–in numbers, in scope, and in energy–to be what it is today: a multi-congregation, multi-choir, multi-faced, must-attend event for Unitarian Universalists and community members on the Front Range. As we continue to grow and expand, the intention is to invite folks from other faith communities who share our vision of a world where all people are loved; all relationships, identities, and genders are understood as holy, worthy, and true; and equality is enshrined in the laws of our state and nation. Until that time, UUs in Colorado (and beyond!) will continue to witness together at the State Capitol, singing, praying, shouting, dancing, and worshipping on the side of love. For, in the words of the declaration read together in unison at the service,

We believe that everyone is created in love, worthy of dignity and respect. Lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender people are an integral part of natural and divine creation. We stand with our whole human family.

We believe that family is best defined by love and commitment, not by gender, configuration, genetics, or government. We stand with all families.

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Post author Kierstin Homblette speaks at the 8th Annual Standing on the Side of Love Service. (Credit: Kevin Lowry)

We believe that creation is characterized by diversity, and that love, relationships, self-expression, and inner truth take many forms. Reverence for diversity encourages peace and enriches all of our lives. We stand for diversity.

We believe that responsible freedom creates an environment that promotes healthy community and a culture of equality where human and divine love flourish. We stand for freedom.

We believe that true freedom must include the option to marry the person of our choice. This freedom must include the ability to move safely through the world without fear. This freedom must include access to shelter, food, work, warmth, family, and love. If these freedoms do not apply equally to all, then none of us is free.

Together, we stand on the side of love.

This post was written by Kierstin Homblette, the Beloved Community Coordinator for the Unitarian Universalist Congregations of Colorado.

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Walk for Reconciliation: A New Way Forward

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Unitarians for Reconciliation Team

Post author Rev. Meg Roberts (in black hat), co-captain Lindsay Hindle, and the rest of the Unitarians for Reconciliation Team.

On Sunday, September 22, in the wet autumn rain, I stood side by side with fellow Unitarians and people of all faiths and cultures in the first Walk for Reconciliation in Canadian history. The walk marks a new way forward in relationships between aboriginal and non-aboriginal people. An amazing 70,000 people joined in this event. Our ‘Unitarians for Reconciliation’ Team was one of over 200 teams from all walks of life showing our support for for truth-telling and healing in Canada.

A bit of background: for 150 years Canadian aboriginal children were forced to live at government-sponsored and church-run residential schools. These schools were created to destroy aboriginal cultures, language, religion and way of life, so aboriginal children would be assimilated into the dominant white Canadian society. This cruel and shameful part of Canadian history and legacy is being examined by a Truth and Reconciliation Commission that is holding events across the country. These events are for school survivors and intergenerational survivors to come to tell their stories, and for the rest of us to witness their brave sharing and learn about what happened in this part of our shared Canadian history. So many of the children suffered emotional, mental, physical, and sexual abuse. So many First Nations, Inuit, and Métis families and communities were destroyed. As a result, many are still reeling from the traumatic pain and damage that is passed on from generation to generation. Although the government officially apologized in 2008 (as have most of the churches who ran the schools), and some financial compensation was made available, the fabric of Canadian society was torn and it will take generations to heal the damage to individual families, aboriginal communities, and culture. Canada lost part of its soul through the residential school system, and will need to find ways to restore the rightful place of aboriginal peoples and cultures within our society, and rebuild relationships between us all.

Walk for Reconciliation overhead view

Overhead view of the Walk for Reconciliation.

The Walk for Reconciliation was part of that healing process, culminating a week of activities here in Vancouver where the Truth and Reconciliation Commission was holding its sixth of seven national events. I was privileged to be able to attend some of those events. People gathered along streets, focusing their attention on the stage and the beginning line of the Walk, marked by huge banners of the medicine wheel. Imagine thousands of umbrellas of all colours held by people of all colours, standing side by side, listening to the music and inspirational words of aboriginal leaders, and the keynote speech of Rev. Dr. Bernice King (daughter of Rev. Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr.). She reminded us:

“When my father spoke those words, ‘I have a dream that my four little children will one day live in a nation where they will not be judged by the colour of their skin but by the content of their character,’ he was not speaking just about us literally, but he was speaking about children and future generations throughout the world, including right here in Canada, British Columbia, Vancouver, he was speaking about each and every one of you.”

Our ‘Unitarians for Reconciliation’ Team had 22 official members from various local congregations, and there were at least 35 Unitarians of all ages who walked with us in that day. The route took us on a 4 kilometre walk through downtown Vancouver. At one point it looped back on two adjacent overpass roads so we could wave across to those on the other side. For more, see this great video from Reconciliation Canada:

As Unitarians, we were honoured to have our participation be part of the Standing on the Side of Love movement, harnessing love’s power to end bigotry against people because of their oppression—in this case against Canadian aboriginal people. So many people came up to thank us, as people of faith, for showing our support of the reconciliation process. I look forward to joining other Unitarians and Canadians as we begin this real transformation in the relationships between aboriginal and non-aboriginal Canadians: to support healing, to build connections, and together to create resilient and sustainable communities for us all in this country. As Chief Dr. Robert Joseph of Reconciliation Canada said, we are walking in the spirit of ‘Nam’wiyut’: we are all one.

This post was written by Rev. Meg Roberts, co-captain of the Unitarians for Reconciliation Team, along with Samaya Oakley and Lindsay Hindle. Meg is also a part-time consulting minister to the Comox Valley Unitarian Fellowship on Vancouver Island. She lives in Vancouver and also explores the Spirit Arts–using the arts as tools in spiritual exploration. For more information, feel free to contact her at mroberts@uuma.org.

Here in the United States, Indigenous Peoples Day is coming up on Monday, October 14th. Check out these 10 ways to honor Indigenous Peoples Day in your congregation or community.

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