Harnessing Love’s Power
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Sending you LOVE this Holiday Season!

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Dear friends,

However you choose to (or choose not to!) celebrate the holidays, we hope one thing is certain for you this year: that you have some joy, justice and LOVE this holiday season.

Here at SSL HQ, we know it has been both a difficult and joyous year. We hold the sadness of lives lost by police brutality and at the border and the ongoing impacts of racial injustice alongside the victories of equalities and halt to some deportations won across the country.

We hope this time of year offers you the chance for reflection. In case you haven’t seen it yet, check out our end of the year web-magazine to bring you some inspiration.

As we move towards a new year, we look forward to continuing to work for a more just, loving and equitable world with you.

Love to you and yours,









Jen, Nora & the entire SSL team

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Upgrade your Organizing with Groundswell in 2015!

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I’m amazed at what you all do. And every day, I think about how I can help make your work have more impact and drive bigger change.

Today, we know we can’t make change without the internet. From petitions to hashtags to email – we have to be hard-hitting on all fronts offline and online.

Clergy against police brutality (Photo by Jesi Kelley)

So we’re teaming up with the awesome digital trainers at Groundswell to bring you a special webinar on online organizing. It’ll be a chance to learn how to use digital tools to amplify your faith-rooted work for change.

RSVP HERE to join us on January 14th at 2pm EST/11am PST Intro to Online Organizing for Standing on the Side of Love, with Groundswell.

The Groundswell trainers – Isaac and Michelle – are experts in using digital for social change. And not just in theory, but in practice. They’ve been working with faith leaders and lay folks to start and run campaigns on their free platform – so they come equipped with case studies, practical tips, and skills in digital chaplaincy (their phrase, and we love it).

We’ll be using the AnyMeeting platform for this webinar. (You can check out AnyMeeting in advance here). Interested in joining? RSVP here. We’ll also send out a reminder closer to the date, but for now be sure to save the date in your calendar for January 14 2pm EST/11am PST. Let your friends and your networks know by forwarding this email onto others who will benefit from these useful tools you can use!

Isaac & Michelle of Groundswell

We’re really excited about how to get their free toolset in your hands to start amplifying your organizing. So make sure to save the date, January 14th 2pm EST/11am PST. Why not start the new year off with a new skillset to upgrade your organizing? We’ll see you there!

In faith,









Jennifer Toth, Campaign Director

P.S. This will be the first in a series of webinars we are kicking off for 2015. We will also be teaming up with our friends at Faithify on February 11 at 8pm EST/5pm PST to share tools for funding your social justice work. Stay tuned for more info soon!

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U.S./Mexico Border Immersion for UU Youth!

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“The impact of this trip was enhanced by being together as Unitarian Universalists.  Our faith, our singing, our prayers became a sacred space to hold the heartbreak and the examples of resistance as one.  In this way, what we learned and experienced impacted not just our individual perspectives, but our public voice and commitment as faith leaders, as UUs.”

—Rev. Susan Frederick-Gray

Dear friends,

In October, we joined a delegation of over 20 UU Clergy and Leaders on a joint trip to the U.S./Mexico border with the UU College of Social Justice (UUCSJ), Standing on the Side of Love and BorderLinks. We found the experience to be even more powerful than we expected, as we saw our faith and justice partners in action.

“We went to bear witness.  Companioned on both sides of the border by brave and generous people who do this work full-time, we saw first-hand the oppression and suffering that are the direct result of cruel policy. We saw the echoing effects of economic injustice, and understood the impact of our militarized border. We were sobered and also deeply inspired, lifted up by the hope and hard work of our partners in faith. We were transformed, and came home ready to transform the work of our congregations on immigration justice.”  —Rev. Victoria Safford

Rev. Victoria Safford places an offering at the No More Deaths gravesite in the desert that honors the lives lost at the US/Mexico border

Imagine how powerful it will be for 20 UU high school youth to learn as we did!

UUCSJ is thrilled to announce Activate Southwest Border, a youth training in summer 2015. This is the kind of hands-on experience that will help bring the seven principles to life — and build community and connection with youth from around the country. In this intensive one-week program, participants will hear powerful testimonies from migrants, from undocumented youth who were raised in the U.S., and from the allies working to change current laws. They will walk the desert paths followed by thousands of migrants each year, and help distribute life-saving water and medicine along these routes.

Join the youth training in the Southwest Border through Activate, a UU College of Social Justice program! The dates for this training will be August 1 to 9, 2015 in Tucson, Arizona. To learn more and register, check out the page here.

If your youth group would like to send a delegation with us to the border at other times, please visit this page. And contact us at info@uucsj.org with any questions!

Youth will have hands-on experiences like ours meeting with No More Deaths, a ministry of the UU Church of Tucson, who led us on a trek into the desert to a makeshift gravesite honoring the many lives lost crossing the border. We learned of their work creating harm reduction kits to help save lives, and of the station in the desert where they provide water and medical care to those in need.

Youth will be moved, as we were, by Kino Border Initiative, who run a community feeding center and a respite stop for people just returned to the Mexico border. And they will be inspired by local faith leaders, as we were after our meeting with Rev. John Fife, former pastor of Southside Presbyterian Church in Tucson, which began the first Sanctuary Movement.

Such powerful words. These are important opportunities for youth to get involved this summer. Together, let’s help activate the Southwest Border with UU youth!

In faith,








Kathleen, Jen and the College of Social Justice and Standing of the Side of Love teams


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A Look Back at 2014: Together on the Side of Love

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2014 has been an incredible year for Standing on the Side of Love. All across the country, the Love People have worked hard to build the Beloved Community. From January, when we kicked off Thirty Days of Love with a renewed commitment to voting rights, through the spring with lots of actions on immigration reform, to celebrating our fifth anniversary at the UUA General Assembly, it’s been a busy year for love! In July dozens of UU clergy got arrested for immigration reform in front of the White House, then September saw the largest ever People’s Climate March, with hundreds of UUs. Together, we held vigils from Boston to LA following the killing of Michael Brown and the grand jury decision in November, and we are ending the year filled with both frustration and hope. This web-based magazine is a look back at 2014 as an opportunity to honor and celebrate all of the hard work of Love People all over the country.

Before we welcome 2015, we know how important it is to allow time to reflect back on the past year. We put together this end of the year review to honor and celebrate all the hard work of our supporters. Check out www.TogetherontheSideofLove.org to view our year-end review! You can click through each month to take a trip down social justice memory lane.

As you look through these powerful images of your fellow Love People in action, we encourage you to reflect back on the past year, and think ahead to the coming year. What called your heart this year? What restored your soul as we worked together to bring more love into this world?

Together, let’s stand on the side of love and continue to build the Beloved Community in 2015 and beyond!

In faith,









Jen, Nora and the SSL team

P.S.: How will you stand on the side of love in 2015? Share with us at love@uua.org.

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Yes to Life

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Etched in my memory on a daily basis these days are the Black men who have been killed over the last several months by people whose task it was to protect and serve them. As a black, queer trans-identified male, who is also aware of the violence too often inflicted upon queer and Trans bodies by people in authority, I carry a fear for my own life that is real. If there is any good news in this, it is that I don’t have to shoulder this reality or my fears alone. I have family and friends who love me and understand the broader issues involved, and I can speak plainly about these things at church.

When the grand jury decision in the Michael Brown shooting was announced, community members of First Parish Cambridge rallied. Along with organizing a group to travel together to a protest of that decision the next evening, plans were set in motion to hold a community conversation after worship that Sunday to talk about how folks were feeling and what we could do. Our Senior Minister, Rev. Fred Small, even changed his sermon to address the harsh realities of racism and white supremacy, and the harm that systems of oppression do to all of us.

When we gathered for the conversation, we didn’t get all of our questions answered. That wasn’t the point. The clear and caring facilitation of two of our members, Karin Lin and Susan Leslie, created a safe space to share what had come up for us. Click here to see our Ferguson Conversation Guide. Every person was also willing to listen and be open. What I have said time and again reigned true that afternoon – we will never understand that which we have not been intentional about making room for.

Perhaps more than anything, this conversation (and others that will follow) was a recognition of who and what we value. We have spent centuries reveling in our ability as a nation to excel in science, writing, math and the like. But we’ve spent very little time, all things considered, learning how to talk about race, racial identity and the very real impact racial disparities have on all of our lives. It helped me feel valued that someone thought it important to reframe the course of my Sunday in the aftermath of devastating news that implicates my place in the wider world. Being valued is something we all want, not regardless of, but because of the various identities that make us who we are. Actually recognizing and celebrating the value of every person in community is work that’s worth doing. So my hope, going forward, is that we can all commit to doing a few things:

• Acknowledge the discomfort. Acknowledging and understanding the ways in which racial disparities play out in our homes, schools, workplaces, and especially our churches is hard. It just is, and remaining silent about it won’t make it any less uncomfortable.

• Listen actively. Most often, we can only see beyond our own lens not by talking, but by listening. Putting ourselves in positions to hear the stories of people who are most deeply impacted by racial disparities will grow our heart and head muscles, and at this moment in our nation’s history, we can’t afford not to listen or grow.

• Understand the significance of #blacklivesmatter. Shifting the focus to #alllivesmatter erases the realities of systemic racism and, in order to deal with that problem, we have to be willing to face it head on. Rev. Daniel S. Schatz’s excellent response to a community member who requested that he take down the “Black Lives Matter” signage posted outside the BuxMont Unitarian Universalist Fellowship is most instructive and really well done.

• Widen the circle. We cannot adequately address these issues within the confines of our own understanding. We have to go out and build relationships that can broaden our viewpoints, whether that’s by offering deeper learning within our own faith communities or by partnering with other communities and organizations who care about these issues. And however we widen the circle, we must do so giving primary voice to people of color in shaping the nature of the conversation and the collaboration.

In a moment like this, I am reminded of a song we often sing on Sunday morning. “Just as long as I have breath, I must answer, ‘Yes,’ to life.” (SLT #6) It is true, you know. We must – all of us – precisely for all the reasons why people like Mike Brown and Eric Garner can’t anymore. And in order to do that with integrity, we are called to step more fully into shifting the tides of racial inequity that have plagued this country for generations. We must help carry this torch, in all of our discomfort and uncertainty and with all our hopefulness and a willingness to be challenged and changed. Don’t wait. If not us, who? If not now, when? I’m tired of my people dying. Aren’t you?

In faith,









Rev. Mykal Slack

P.S. If you plan to attend the National March against Police Brutality in Washington, DC this weekend click here for more details. And if you and/or your congregation have been already been taking action for racial justice in solidarity with Ferguson click here to share.

Rev. Mykal Slack is the Community Life Coordinator at First Parish Cambridge, the Director of Worship for the Sanctuary Boston and the Founder & Lead Organizer of 4LYFE Ministries, an Associated Ministry of Metropolitan Community Churches.

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