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Make a Resolution for Love

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Without a doubt, 2012 has been a momentous year for Standing on the Side of Love.

Tent City (Credit: Nancy Pierce)

We kicked off the year with our first annual Thirty Days of Love, bringing together thousands of people in a month of intentional reflection, action, education, and witness for love. In June, we gathered in Phoenix, a group of 2,500 strong, to call for justice at Sheriff Joe Arapaio’s inhumane Tent City jail. Across the country, we stood on the side of love at countless local city council meetings, detention centers, pride parades, state houses, prayer vigils, Walmart stores, and even the United States Supreme Court. We sent over 2,000 messages of love and support to the victims of the shooting at the Sikh temple in Oak Creak, Wisconsin. Together, we worked for a 2012 Election with unprecedented victories for marriage equality, DREAMers, and diversity in the halls of Congress.

Despite these amazing triumphs for love and justice, there is still much more work to be done in pursuit of the Beloved Community.

Join us in making a resolution for love in 2013. Pledge to take part in the Thirty Days of Love today!

We are kicking off 2013 with our second annual Thirty Days of Love campaign, and we hope you will join us once again on this month-long spiritual journey for justice. We will celebrate some important milestones–Rev. Dr. Martin Luther King Jr. Day, the 40th anniversary of Roe v. Wade, the second inauguration of our first African American president, and more. President Obama has promised that comprehensive immigration reform will be on the top of his agenda, and we will be working with our partners across the country to ensure that families stay are able to stay together. And that’s just the beginning! We need your vision, your ideas, and your voice as we work for a more just and loving world in 2013.

With your help, we can stand on the side of love in new and profound ways in the upcoming year. Join the movement and take the Thirty Days of Love pledge today.

In faith,

Jennifer Toth
Campaign Manager
Standing on the Side of Love

The message above went out on Tuesday, January 1, 2013 to Standing on the Side of Love supporters. You can sign-up for these emails here.

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A Celebration Worthy of Cake

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Here at Allen Avenue Unitarian Universalist Church in Portland, Maine, we recently celebrated our state’s vote for marriage equality during our Sunday services–an event complete with Standing on the Side of Love-themed cakes!

Standing on the Side of Love cakes!

We had two wedding cakes with same-sex edible marzipan couples as toppers, which the congregation shared during coffee hour. During the service itself, we danced around the sanctuary to commemorate the occasion.

Maine approved marriage equality by ballot measure in November. We are excited to begin having same-sex weddings here at our congregation in the new year!

Meret with her cake.

This post was contributed by Meret Bainbridge, a member of Allen Avenue UU Church.

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UUs in Westchester & Rockland, NY Support PrideWorks for Youth

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PrideWorks is a prominent educational conference for LGBTQ youth and their allies, held annually in Westchester County, New York. Every year, some 600 LGBTQ youth, their educators, parents, and allies flock to PrideWorks for seminars and speakers addressing such topics as healthy relationships, coming out, anti-bullying, and building a gay-straight alliance.

Every year there are also protesters outside the conference. This year their message was one of change–not for themselves but instead that our youth should change their sexual orientation. We are bothered every year by their presence as it’s the first thing that the youth see as they arrive. This year we offered a different greeting with a Standing on the Side of Love banner, which the youth appreciated enthusiastically.

Offering a message of love instead of hate as the youth arrive.

Now in its fourteenth year, many Unitarian Universalist youth and adults in our area have attended the PrideWorks conference since the beginning. Some time ago, the youth group from our congregation in Hastings on Hudson held a fundraiser to support the conference, becoming the first UU supporter listed in the program. Over the past year, we have organized a bigger presence at PrideWorks. Each of the congregations in Westchester and Rockland obtained governing board approval to be an official sponsor and raised funds in some fashion, ranging from a youth group bake sale to share-the-plate programs.

SSL volunteers from Westchester-area congregations.

This year, we were a “Rainbow Circle” supporter–recognized prominently with a display table to provide supportive material to youth. Many of us wore our Standing on the Side of Love shirts to help spread love all weekend long.

This post was contributed by John Cavallero, the Director of Religious Education at the First Unitarian Society of Westchester in Hastings on Hudson, New York. Other participating UU congregations include: Mohegan Lake, Croton on Hudson, Mount Kisco, White Plains, and Pomona.

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Taking Our Voice to the White House for Immigration Reform

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Members of the IIC coalition including Rev. Roshaven (center) with Ms. Rodriguez.

Yesterday, I went with fellow members of the Interfaith Immigration Coalition (IIC) Steering Committee to meet with Julie Chavez Rodriguez, Associate Director of Latino Affairs and Immigration in the White House Office of Public Engagement, and present our list of key principles for compassionate, comprehensive immigration reform to the Obama Administration. I felt honored to represent the Unitarian Universalist community and proud of the good work that so many of our congregational and community leaders have done for migrant justice and the Beloved Community.

For us, any immigration reform that does not include a pathway to citizenship and prioritize keeping families together is unacceptable. As people of faith, we are calling for compassionate immigration reform legislation that:

• Addresses the root causes of migration,
• Creates a process for undocumented immigrants to earn citizenship,
• Keeps families together,
• Enacts the DREAM Act,
• Protects workers’ rights including agricultural workers,
• Places humanitarian values at the center of enforcement policies, and
• Protects refugees and migrant survivors of violence.

What can you do to help support our work for compassionate, comprehensive immigration reform? Local congregations and individual faith leaders can sign on to our letter to Congress listing key principles of immigration reform. Click here to learn more.

Additionally, your congregation or community group can participate in the upcoming Breaking Bread and Building Bridges campaign—a program to create and strengthen relationships between people of faith, impacted communities, and immigrants’ rights groups, and increase local capacity to effectively advocate for just immigration policies.

Keep your eye out in the coming weeks—we are also organizing a national immigration reform call-in on the day after Inauguration (January 22). Join folks from across the country in asking President Obama and Congress to enact compassionate, comprehensive immigration reform that includes a pathway to citizenship and keeps families together. The IIC Steering Committee will be visiting key members of congress on that same day. Add your voice to ours and help ensure that the faith community is heard!

Rev. Craig C. Roshaven

This post was written by Rev. Craig Roshaven, Unitarian Universalist Association Witness Ministries Director and a leader in the Interfaith Immigration Coalition (IIC) Steering Committee.

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Let Us Pray

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Let us pray for the families who have lost loved ones and little ones at the Sandy Hook Elementary School in Connecticut.

Let us hold our own children and family members closer as we remember those who cannot do so today.

Let us pray with our work to make this world safer for all children and reaffirm our sacred obligation to protect the weak from the strong, the many who are peaceful from the few who are violent, the innocent young from the actions of reckless and dangerous adults.

Let us hope for healing in this time when healing seems unimaginable.

Let us love one another with a deeper appreciation of the sacred worth of every child and every human being knowing that when we do so there is a power greater than ourselves that can renew, restore and sustain us.

Rev. Chris Buice

This prayer was offered by Rev. Chris Buice of the Tennessee Valley Unitarian Universalist Church in Knoxville in response to the recent shooting at Sandy Hook Elementary School in Newtown, Connecticut. A shooting at that congregation in 2008 inspired the creation of the Standing on the Side of Love campaign.

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