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Standing on the Side of Love Day is Coming Up

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Jan 06, 2011
Dan Furmansky, Campaign Manager, Standing on the Side of Love

The message below went out to Standing on the Side of Love supporters on Thursday, January 6. You can sign-up for these emails here.

Dan Furmansky is Campaign Manager of the Standing on the Side of Love Campaign.


National Standing on the Side of Love Day is coming up, do you know what your plans are this year? On February 14th, and the days surrounding, we re-imagine Valentine’s Day as a holiday for love and acceptance for everyone. This year we celebrate the unsung heroes in our communities.

We are surrounded by individuals who lead by example and support the most vulnerable and marginalized amongst us every day. This is a wonderful opportunity to uplift their stories.

Click here to find some ideas for your event on Standing on the Side of Love Day.

I am also excited to announce that this year The Fund for UU Social Responsibility has set aside $25,000 to be made available as matching grants of $500-$1,500 to UU congregations participating in the Standing on the Side of Love campaign. If you have a grander idea than your budget allows, these grants can help you recognize the work of a leader in your community. Click here to find out more and apply for a grant for your event: http://www.uua.org/giving/fundingprogram/102184.shtml.

Thanks in advance for making this National Standing on the Side of Love Day and the days surrounding something special that underscores just what our whole movement is about. If you would like, I am glad to talk with you and toss around ideas for your own Standing on the Side of Love Day event recognizing courageous love. Just drop me a line by replying to this email.

Dan Furmansky

Campaign Manager

Standing on the Side of Love

P.S. In case you missed it, below is the email I sent just before Christmas that provides one example of a personal hero who has demonstrated courageous love.

———- Forwarded message ———-

From: Standing on the Side of Love Campaign

Subject: Who will you honor for their courageous love?

Dear [[First_Name]],

Last year, Standing on the Side of Love re-imagined Valentine’s Day as National Standing on the Side of Love Day — a holiday of love and acceptance for everyone. Together, we brought our campaign to life, and we found creative ways to stand on the side of love with those who are all too often marginalized as “the other” in society.

National Standing on the Side of Love Day is a chance to uplift others; strengthen and support local partnerships; and join together, in joy and in purpose, with those who support the universal values of love and acceptance for all people.

This coming Valentine’s Day 2011 — our 2nd Annual “National Standing on the Side of Love Day” – the Standing on the Side of Love campaign wants to take the opportunity to recognize the courageous love in our lives and in our communities.

Click here to learn more about National Standing on the Side of Love Day 2011, and how you can take part.

Bernice Melov

Bernice Melov, 92, passed away last weekend. This National Standing on the Side of Love Day, honor Bernice and other unsung heroes for their courageous love.

As I sat down to write you this message, an email came through to me from my friend, Steve Melov, letting me know that his mother, Bernice, passed away at the age of 92. I cried upon hearing the news. Bernice was a very special woman, and I adored her. She was also the embodiment of courageous love.

Throughout her 70’s and 80’s, Bernice Melov witnessed, learned, taught and mentored as a national office volunteer for Parents, Friends & Families of Lesbians and Gays (PFLAG). Later on, Bernice and Steve were super-volunteers at Equality Maryland, the state’s LGBT civil rights group. When I served as Executive Director of the organization, Bernice showed up in the office week after week to help with whatever was most needed.

Every year, Bernice would join us in Annapolis to testify before the Maryland legislature for marriage equality. A 90-year-old woman in a wheelchair is someone who automatically commands the ears of those around her, and Bernice more than deserved the deferential attention. She spoke with great conviction, wisdom, heart, and maternal love.

Bernice Melov was an ordinary person who used her extraordinary power to shine the light on injustice. Through her words and deeds, she reached beyond her immediate circle, and even beyond her own comfort zone, to create societal change. She exemplified the values of inclusion, diversity, community, and equality. This is the courageous love that we should seek to uplift this coming National Standing on the Side of Love Day.

All around us, there are Bernice Melovs who embody courageous love. They fight to bring their same-sex boyfriend or girlfriend to their prom. They risk deportation to come out as undocumented and push for the DREAM Act. They are administrators and teachers who advocate zero tolerance policies around bullying. And they are citizens who actively and passionately engage in poll watching to ensure minority voting rights.

Indeed, the list of unsung heroes who embody courageous love is long.

On Valentine’s Day 2011, Bernice Melov will be at the forefront of my mind, and I will find ways to honor her for her courageous love. This National Standing on the Side of Love Day, who do you want to honor for their courageous love?

Click here to learn more about National Standing on the Side of Love Day 2011, and how you can shine the spotlight on courageous love.

Wishing you health, happiness, and bountiful love during this holiday season and New Year,

Dan Furmansky

Campaign Manager

Standing on the Side of Love

One Response to “Standing on the Side of Love Day is Coming Up”

  1. Last year I prevailed upon UUA President Peter Morales to offer an official UUA apology to all victims of non-sexual forms of UU clergy misconduct during the first observance of National Standing On The Side Of Love Day. Quite evidently President Morales ignored and disregarded my quite reasonable request-demand for such a UUA institutional apology to be delivered on February 14th 2010.

    I will send him a little reminder soon and will probably find a way to stand on the side of love for UU clergy misconduct victims by displaying some bright orange picket signs with (in)appropriate slogans in front of one or more UU churches over the next little while and on February 14th 2011 which will mark the 15th anniversary of my own clergy misconduct complaint against a “less than excellent”, indeed intolerant and abusive, Unitarian*Universalist minister.

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